when you think of love, does it scare you? I've been on several dating sites every since my last relationship ended. I have to say that there are lot of women don't know what they want and relationship. They say they want love, but there are very few who are willing to do what it takes to find it. They want the man that they're in a relationship with to give 100%, while they only get 50%. In my opinion to truly find love, you must find someone who is willing to give the same amount that you are. Find someone who is willing to do the same things that they want you to do. in order to have a successful relationship, you have to first find out the amount of success that you are able to achieve. I say this simply because some of us spend our whole lives trying to achieve the same amount of success that we see others acquire. Love is in a fairytale, if allowed seems like a fairytale then it probably is in love at all. We have to learn the difference between love and infatuation, know the difference between love and lust. Do you want to have this person for one night or do you want to have this person for the rest of your life. That is the decision we must grow comfortable with making.
There are so many women who say "I just can't find a good man". When most of the time the man they need is right in front of their face. Most of the time when we first set out to find someone to love, and local you want and then we try to make what we want to provide what we need. Love is not perfection, true love is something that you find when you gain the ability to acknowledge a person's imperfections and still choose to love them anyway.if you can do that for your significant other then you have found true love. Also just because you start to love someone, that does not mean you will ever fall in love with them. In today's world it seems like when a girl or a guy find someone that they love, they automatically assume that they are in love with this person. I love you does not mean that I'm in love with you, it just means that I love you. It's weird and most of you probably already know that there is a difference between the two. In closing when you decide to find somebody to love, remember that it is not about finding what you want. The journey of love is about accepting what you need. Believing that finding what you need will make you a lot more happier than finding what you want.
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